Relationship Layout #1

Relationship Layout #1

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

This layout is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court tiles generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this layout. Look for patterns in the tiles as always.

Tile #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.

The top row, tiles #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.

The middle row, tiles #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.

The bottom row, tiles #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this tile against the other person's tiles to determine how they match up.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Relationship #1 Reading

You
Other Person
Thought
            

Bamboo 4 – The Carp
            

Rooster
Emotion
            

Bamboo 7 – The Tortoise
The Significator

Green Dragon – The Commence
            

Bamboo – Learning
External Stance
            

Winter –
            

Wan 6 – Fire

 

 

 

 

The Significator

Green Dragon – The Commence

The Green Dragon symbolises the dawn of new endeavours, marking the threshold where old cycles conclude and fresh opportunities arise. It carries the energy of renewal, signalling that the time has come for a journey of transformation. In traditional lore, the Green Dragon is revered as the spirit of regeneration—its vibrant colour reflecting growth, healing, and the boundless potential of nature. It inspires a proactive embrace of change, encouraging you to initiate projects, relationships, or personal transformations with conviction and optimism. The Green Dragon's influence is subtle yet potent, urging you to trust the natural progression of events and to take that first step towards a future filled with promise.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Thoughts

Bamboo 4 – The Carp

The Carp signifies perseverance, tranquillity, and spiritual fulfilment. A bringer of both material and emotional wealth, this tile reflects the journey towards balance and peace. Just as the carp swims against the current, overcoming obstacles will lead to deep contentment and inner harmony. The Carp is also associated with personal evolution—through consistent effort and inner strength, one can transform challenges into victories. This tile may also indicate a situation where patience and persistence will be rewarded, especially in matters of career, education, or self-improvement. A transformation is on the horizon; trust your ability to rise above adversity.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Thoughts

Rooster

The Rooster symbolises punctuality, discipline, and the promise of new beginnings. It stands for communication and the commitment to rising early, establishing order in your daily life. This tile embodies self-reliance and the drive to assert your presence in the world, ensuring that every new day is approached with determination. The Rooster's crow is not just a call to awaken; it signifies the importance of marking time and seizing opportunities as they emerge. It champions responsibility and the readiness to defend one's personal space, encouraging you to face challenges. The Rooster teaches that consistency, vigilance, and proactive engagement create the groundwork for enduring success.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Querent's Emotions

Bamboo 7 – The Tortoise

Symbolising the universe, the Tortoise embodies patience, endurance, wisdom, and the rewards of steady progress. This tile reminds you that slow and deliberate action leads to success that endures, rather than fleeting triumphs. The Tortoise is often a symbol of longevity and protection, indicating a strong foundation and stability in your life. If challenges seem to stretch endlessly, take heart—success will come with time, effort, and perseverance. It encourages careful planning and calculated decisions rather than impulsive moves. Trust in the long game; even if progress seems slow, your efforts will ultimately bring lasting results.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's Emotions

Bamboo – Learning

The Bamboo represents resilience, adaptability, and the power of communal strength. Unlike rigid trees that snap in strong winds, bamboo bends but does not break, symbolising the ability to endure challenges through flexibility and wisdom. This tile calls for a balance between strength and surrender, reminding you that sometimes the best way to overcome an obstacle is to yield rather than resist. It also speaks to the importance of interconnectedness—family, friendships, and alliances provide stability and support. The Bamboo encourages you to lean on those around you, knowing that cooperation leads to greater success than solitary struggle. Just as a single bamboo stalk is fragile, but a grove is unbreakable, your strength lies in your connections and willingness to adapt.

 

 

 

 

The Querent's External Stance

Winter –

Winter represents stillness, endings, and the contemplation that comes before renewal. This tile signifies a period of quiet, where external activity slows, and the focus turns inwards. It may indicate a time of rest, solitude, or even loss—but within this stillness lies great wisdom. Winter teaches that endings are necessary for rebirth; it is a time to release old burdens, reflect on experiences, and prepare for a new cycle. Patience is required, as growth often happens beneath the surface before it becomes visible. Trust the process—this period of dormancy is temporary, and spring will come again.

 

 

 

 

The Other Person's External Stance

Wan 6 – Fire

The Fire tile is a potent emblem of imbalance, transformation through crisis, and the urgency to address burning issues before they consume vital resources. It warns that an intense, potentially destructive force is at play, whether in the realms of finance, personal relationships, or spiritual well-being. Fire demands immediate attention, signalling that unchecked passions or conflicts may lead to irreversible losses. This tile forces you to confront what is out of control—whether it be a volatile situation, unresolved emotions, or unsustainable ambitions—and restore equilibrium before the conflagration spreads further. Yet, in its purifying aspect, Fire also carries the promise of renewal. By facing and resolving these fiery challenges, you can emerge cleansed, with a clearer sense of purpose and boundaries that protect your future.

 

 

 

 

 

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