Relationship Layout #2
Difficulty: Easy
This relationship spread focuses more on the common ground of the relationship, with three tiles in the middle column showing the common ground. The middle column essentially displays the past, present, and future of the relationship.
Tile #4 stands for the common base of the relationship, which may be thought of as the past events which have shaped their characters, bringing them together. The current connection that binds them together is Tile #3, indicating the values shared. Tile #7 implies the common goals that would keep the pair together moving into the future.
The columns on either side show what each partner brings to the table. Remember, relationships need not be romantic, and the partners could even be groups rather than individuals. In this layout, the other person is on the left-hand side and the reader on the right.
Tiles #1 & #2 indicate the separate personalities of each member of the relationship. These tiles form a sort of bridge with the tiles beneath them, #5 & #6, which show the qualities that each partner offers the other person, and thus to the relationship as a whole.
Your Relationship #2 Reading
Mutual Goals |
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Your Qualities |
Connection (Present) |
Others' Qualities |
What You Bring |
Common Base (Past) |
What They Bring  |
7: Mutual Goals
Bamboo 5 – The Lotus Flower
The Lotus is a sacred emblem of rebirth, enlightenment, and the ability to rise above challenges. Its emergence suggests new beginnings—a birth, a fresh opportunity, or spiritual awakening. Rising from the mud to bloom in pristine beauty, this tile signifies triumph over adversity and the purity of spirit gained through hardship. The Lotus encourages letting go of pain, releasing attachments to negativity, and embracing a higher state of consciousness. It heralds a period of recovery and renewal, reminding you that even the most challenging circumstances can lead to profound clarity. Now is the time to embrace new perspectives and allow yourself to flourish.
3: Connection
Circles 6 – The Peach
The Peach is an emblem of longevity, health, and divine favour. It is associated with immortality and the blessings of celestial beings. It signals a period of renewal and sustained well-being—both physically and spiritually. It suggests endurance, wisdom, and careful cultivation will bring lasting rewards. The Peach also represents rare and valuable opportunities that, once seized, can bring tremendous fortune and happiness. It may point to the presence of a nurturing force—whether a person or a vital inner quality—that fosters growth and compassion.
4: Common Base
White Dragon – The Unknown
The White Dragon stands as a mysterious symbol of the unseen forces at work in your life. It represents the enigmatic and unpredictable aspects of fate that lie beyond human perception. This tile invites you to acknowledge that not all elements in your journey are fully revealed or understood, and that there is wisdom in embracing uncertainty. The White Dragon's ethereal quality encourages openness to hidden influences that shape your destiny. It cautions against overreliance on clear-cut answers, reminding you that growth often comes from navigating ambiguity and exploring the realms of the unknown. The White Dragon, therefore, serves as both a guardian of secret knowledge and a catalyst for intuitive insight, urging you to trust that even the mysterious aspects of life contribute to your ultimate evolution.
2: Your Qualities
Wan 8 – The Knot
The Knot signifies connection, fate, and the web of relationships and circumstances that shape our lives. It suggests that events or people are deeply intertwined, and understanding these connections is key to resolving current challenges. This tile can indicate strong bonds—whether romantic, familial, or spiritual—that require care and attention to remain intact. However, it may also warn of entanglements or obligations that have become restrictive. If the Knot feels too tight, it may be time to untangle yourself from unhealthy patterns or commitments. The lesson of the Knot is that relationships and choices are bound by cause and effect; mindful actions will create harmony, while carelessness may lead to complications.
1: Their Qualities
Wan 3 – Land
The Land tile represents stability, nurturing growth, and the fertile ground upon which your aspirations can take root. It speaks to both physical and metaphorical landscapes, suggesting that your environment—whether a home, community, or inner state—is ready to support your ambitions. This tile emphasises that true progress is built on a solid foundation; it calls for an assessment of your current resources and surroundings to ensure they are conducive to long-term success. As a symbol of both abundance and grounding, Land encourages you to cultivate a sense of rootedness and stability. In this phase, growth will be measured by the strength of your base, and nurturing your inner landscape becomes as crucial as pursuing external achievements. This tile reminds you that when the earth is well-tilled, the seeds of your endeavours will flourish.
6: What You Bring
Plum Blossom – Innocence
5: What They Bring
Circles 7 – The Insect
The Insect tile represents a surge of rapid, energetic activity that delivers quick, albeit transient, successes. It emphasises the potential for short bursts of inspiration and effort that can lead to immediate gains, but it also serves as a reminder that these victories are temporary. This tile underscores the importance of recognising that rapid action can act as a catalyst—a bridge—towards establishing more enduring achievements. It invites you to harness these moments of heightened energy to spark initial progress, while also urging you to develop strategies that convert these brief surges into a stable, long-term foundation. The Insect teaches that while adrenaline-fuelled initiatives can provide a vital boost, lasting growth depends on careful planning and deliberate, sustained effort once the initial momentum has been captured. Use these episodes as signals to seize opportunity, then transition to more measured actions that secure lasting benefits.
