Relationship Layout #2
Difficulty: Easy
This relationship spread focuses more on the common ground of the relationship, with three tiles in the middle column showing the common ground. The middle column essentially displays the past, present, and future of the relationship.
Tile #4 stands for the common base of the relationship, which may be thought of as the past events which have shaped their characters, bringing them together. The current connection that binds them together is Tile #3, indicating the values shared. Tile #7 implies the common goals that would keep the pair together moving into the future.
The columns on either side show what each partner brings to the table. Remember, relationships need not be romantic, and the partners could even be groups rather than individuals. In this layout, the other person is on the left-hand side and the reader on the right.
Tiles #1 & #2 indicate the separate personalities of each member of the relationship. These tiles form a sort of bridge with the tiles beneath them, #5 & #6, which show the qualities that each partner offers the other person, and thus to the relationship as a whole.
Your Relationship #2 Reading
Mutual Goals |
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Your Qualities |
Connection (Present) |
Others' Qualities |
What You Bring |
Common Base (Past) |
What They Bring  |
7: Mutual Goals
Bamboo 3 – The Toad
The Toad represents resilience through hardship, resourcefulness, and the rewards of patience. Its presence suggests a time of struggle or slow progress, but also the wisdom gained from perseverance. The Toad is often associated with wealth and protection in folklore, signifying hidden treasures that will only be revealed through hard work and dedication. Ambition may be high, but it warns against reaching beyond one's means without preparation. This tile urges patience—difficulties will pass, leaving you stronger and more grounded in your pursuits. Look beyond surface-level frustrations to recognise deeper opportunities for learning and growth.
3: Connection
North Wind – Water
The North Wind embodies the relentless, often tumultuous qualities of Water, signalling periods of emotional challenge and uncertainty. This tile suggests that the road ahead may be marked by deep, transformative trials—where turbulent emotions and shifting circumstances test your adaptability. Water's fluidity represents both the potential for cleansing renewal and the risk of overwhelming currents. It advises you to remain vigilant and adaptive, using intuition and flexibility to navigate through the complexities that arise. In essence, the North Wind is a call to harness inner strength and resilience, allowing the natural ebb and flow of life's challenges to eventually lead to personal growth and renewal.
4: Common Base
Plum Blossom – Innocence
The Plum Blossom is a symbol of resilience, purity, and the resolve to endure hardship. Blooming in the cold of winter, it thrives where other flowers wither, representing perseverance through life's harshest trials. This tile suggests that even in difficult times, there is beauty to be found, and endurance will ultimately lead to renewal. The Plum Blossom also speaks to inner fortitude—your ability to withstand adversity with grace and dignity. Challenges may persist, but just as winter gives way to spring, your current struggles will lead to a period of flourishing. It encourages patience, reminding you that the most valuable growth often occurs in times of hardship.
2: Your Qualities
Circles 9 – The Unicorn
The Unicorn stands as an emblem of visionary insight, intuitive clarity, and the rare capacity to discern truths that lie beneath surface appearances. This tile conveys an ethereal quality, suggesting that you have a vision capable of revealing hidden patterns and underlying realities in both people and situations. It encourages you to trust in your intuitive gifts and cultivate a perception beyond conventional sight. The Unicorn's energy is one of subtle yet profound revelation—it implies that unique perspectives and psychic sensitivity can open doors to understanding that others may overlook. The Unicorn not only points to the presence of extraordinary insight within yourself but may also hint at the influence of a person with rare intuitive abilities who can guide you through complex circumstances. This tile reminds you that clarity arises when you combine rational analysis with a willingness to explore the mystical dimensions of experience.
1: Their Qualities
Bamboo 1 – The Peacock
The Peacock, as the first tile of the Bamboo suit, signifies prosperity, renewal, and the arrival of great fortune. Its dazzling plumage represents recognition, status, and elevated social standing, yet it carries a caution—pride and vanity can lead to downfall. Success should be embraced with humility, as arrogance may unravel what has been earned. The Peacock is also an omen of transformation; a major shift in your life path is imminent, requiring wisdom and grace to navigate. This tile suggests opportunities for growth and self-expression will soon present themselves, but they must be handled with balance and self-awareness to avoid overreaching.
6: What You Bring
Circles 5 – The Dragon
5: What They Bring
Bamboo 2 – The Duck
A symbol of devotion, emotional stability, and harmony, the Duck embodies long-lasting relationships built on mutual trust and shared goals. Whether in love, friendship, or business partnership, this tile speaks of unwavering loyalty and the ability to weather hardships together. The Duck's presence reassures that unity and commitment will overcome all obstacles, leading to enduring companionship and shared prosperity. It also serves as a reminder to maintain balance in relationships—communication, reciprocity, and emotional nourishment are necessary to sustain the bond. If conflicts arise, this tile encourages reconciliation through patience and understanding rather than stubbornness or pride.
