Relationship Layout #2
Difficulty: Easy
This relationship spread focuses more on the common ground of the relationship, with three tiles in the middle column showing the common ground. The middle column essentially displays the past, present, and future of the relationship.
Tile #4 stands for the common base of the relationship, which may be thought of as the past events which have shaped their characters, bringing them together. The current connection that binds them together is Tile #3, indicating the values shared. Tile #7 implies the common goals that would keep the pair together moving into the future.
The columns on either side show what each partner brings to the table. Remember, relationships need not be romantic, and the partners could even be groups rather than individuals. In this layout, the other person is on the left-hand side and the reader on the right.
Tiles #1 & #2 indicate the separate personalities of each member of the relationship. These tiles form a sort of bridge with the tiles beneath them, #5 & #6, which show the qualities that each partner offers the other person, and thus to the relationship as a whole.
Your Relationship #2 Reading
Mutual Goals |
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Your Qualities |
Connection (Present) |
Others' Qualities |
What You Bring |
Common Base (Past) |
What They Bring  |
7: Mutual Goals
West Wind – Metal
The West Wind, infused with the elemental force of Metal, signifies formidable challenges and the need for rigid structure and decisiveness. Its energy is sharp, uncompromising, and focused on cutting through obstructions that impede your progress. This tile warns that the barriers you face are intentional tests of your resolve and discipline. It calls for a strategic, no-nonsense approach to dismantling resistance—transforming obstacles into opportunities through strength, precision, and clarity of purpose. The Metal aspect emphasises that fortitude and determination, when applied with a clear mind, can transform rigidity into a tool for forging lasting success.
3: Connection
Wan 3 – Land
The Land tile represents stability, nurturing growth, and the fertile ground upon which your aspirations can take root. It speaks to both physical and metaphorical landscapes, suggesting that your environment—whether a home, community, or inner state—is ready to support your ambitions. This tile emphasises that true progress is built on a solid foundation; it calls for an assessment of your current resources and surroundings to ensure they are conducive to long-term success. As a symbol of both abundance and grounding, Land encourages you to cultivate a sense of rootedness and stability. In this phase, growth will be measured by the strength of your base, and nurturing your inner landscape becomes as crucial as pursuing external achievements. This tile reminds you that when the earth is well-tilled, the seeds of your endeavours will flourish.
4: Common Base
Orchid – Refinement
The Orchid is a symbol of elegance, integrity, and higher wisdom. It represents the pursuit of personal and spiritual elevation, urging you to rise above mundane distractions and embrace a more enlightened path. The Orchid is associated with those who dedicate themselves to knowledge and self-improvement. This tile suggests a time of refinement—whether in personal relationships, intellectual pursuits, or spiritual development. You are being called to cultivate grace, dignity, and a deeper understanding of the world around you. The Orchid also signifies that beauty and wisdom come from patience and cultivation, not force or haste.
2: Your Qualities
Bamboo 6 – Water
Water is the essence of flow, adaptability, and emotional expression. It represents the necessity of change and movement, encouraging flexibility in both thought and action. This tile suggests that a journey—physical, emotional, or metaphorical—may be necessary to resolve lingering issues or clear stagnation from your life. Water also governs communication, making this a time when honest and open dialogue is critical. Misunderstandings could arise if emotions are suppressed, so transparency is key. Like a river carving its way through stone, persistence in seeking truth will eventually overcome any obstacles in your path.
1: Their Qualities
Summer – The Woodcutter
Summer represents the height of energy, ambition, and fulfilment. It is a time of flourishing—projects reach their peak, passions burn brightly, and desires manifest into reality. This tile signifies momentum, calling for confidence and bold action. If you have been waiting for the right moment to push forward, now is that time. However, summer's intense energy can also lead to exhaustion or burnout if not managed wisely. Balance is essential—do not let the fire of ambition consume you. This season encourages both celebration and productivity, but it also reminds you to rest sometimes.
6: What You Bring
East Wind – Wood
5: What They Bring
Wan 1 – Entering
The Entering tile signals the imminent removal of barriers that have confined you, ushering in a period when hidden opportunities become accessible. This tile speaks to the moment of transition when your efforts align with new gateways to success. It demands courage and readiness—entering uncharted territory with both determination and mindfulness. The energy of this tile implies that personal and professional doors, once firmly shut, are now opening. Embrace this moment as an invitation to move forward; however, the transition requires that you leave behind outdated practices and step into roles that foster growth. The Entering tile, thus, is both a call to action and a herald of transformation, underscoring that the rewards for seizing these new opportunities are worth the effort of change.
