Relationship Layout #2
Difficulty: Easy
This relationship spread focuses more on the common ground of the relationship, with three tiles in the middle column showing the common ground. The middle column essentially displays the past, present, and future of the relationship.
Tile #4 stands for the common base of the relationship, which may be thought of as the past events which have shaped their characters, bringing them together. The current connection that binds them together is Tile #3, indicating the values shared. Tile #7 implies the common goals that would keep the pair together moving into the future.
The columns on either side show what each partner brings to the table. Remember, relationships need not be romantic, and the partners could even be groups rather than individuals. In this layout, the other person is on the left-hand side and the reader on the right.
Tiles #1 & #2 indicate the separate personalities of each member of the relationship. These tiles form a sort of bridge with the tiles beneath them, #5 & #6, which show the qualities that each partner offers the other person, and thus to the relationship as a whole.
Your Relationship #2 Reading
Mutual Goals |
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Your Qualities |
Connection (Present) |
Others' Qualities |
What You Bring |
Common Base (Past) |
What They Bring  |
7: Mutual Goals
Plum Blossom – Innocence
The Plum Blossom is a symbol of resilience, purity, and the resolve to endure hardship. Blooming in the cold of winter, it thrives where other flowers wither, representing perseverance through life's harshest trials. This tile suggests that even in difficult times, there is beauty to be found, and endurance will ultimately lead to renewal. The Plum Blossom also speaks to inner fortitude—your ability to withstand adversity with grace and dignity. Challenges may persist, but just as winter gives way to spring, your current struggles will lead to a period of flourishing. It encourages patience, reminding you that the most valuable growth often occurs in times of hardship.
3: Connection
Summer – The Woodcutter
Summer represents the height of energy, ambition, and fulfilment. It is a time of flourishing—projects reach their peak, passions burn brightly, and desires manifest into reality. This tile signifies momentum, calling for confidence and bold action. If you have been waiting for the right moment to push forward, now is that time. However, summer's intense energy can also lead to exhaustion or burnout if not managed wisely. Balance is essential—do not let the fire of ambition consume you. This season encourages both celebration and productivity, but it also reminds you to rest sometimes.
4: Common Base
West Wind – Metal
The West Wind, infused with the elemental force of Metal, signifies formidable challenges and the need for rigid structure and decisiveness. Its energy is sharp, uncompromising, and focused on cutting through obstructions that impede your progress. This tile warns that the barriers you face are intentional tests of your resolve and discipline. It calls for a strategic, no-nonsense approach to dismantling resistance—transforming obstacles into opportunities through strength, precision, and clarity of purpose. The Metal aspect emphasises that fortitude and determination, when applied with a clear mind, can transform rigidity into a tool for forging lasting success.
2: Your Qualities
Circles 3 – The Phoenix
The Phoenix embodies rebirth, transformation, and the power of rising from the ashes of past struggles. This tile marks a significant change, often following a time of hardship or destruction. Though the process may be painful, it is necessary for growth and renewal. The Phoenix encourages embracing endings as a prelude to new beginnings, shedding the past like old feathers to allow something stronger to emerge. It is a symbol of resilience—no matter how difficult the circumstances, you have the inner strength to rebuild and thrive. This tile also suggests a realisation that will reshape your path for the better.
1: Their Qualities
Wan 5 – House
The House tile stands for the sanctuary of stability, comfort, and the intimate spaces where personal life unfolds. It symbolises not only a physical structure but also the psychological haven that supports your well-being. This tile suggests the quality of your environment—be it a home, workplace, or community—is deeply interwoven with your emotional state. In a positive reading, the House indicates a secure foundation where growth, nurturing relationships, and inner peace are fostered. Conversely, a challenging interpretation might point to stagnation, tension, or the need to reconfigure aspects of your personal domain to better support your aspirations. The House calls for careful introspection about where you reside, both externally and within, urging you to build or restore a setting that reflects your inner values and needs.
6: What You Bring
Bamboo 5 – The Lotus Flower
5: What They Bring
East Wind – Wood
The East Wind represents the core of your being and the birth of new energy. This tile embodies the vital force of growth, mirroring the nurturing yet resilient nature of Wood. It signifies that the energies influencing your current state are rooted in your inner self—your creativity, ambitions, and authentic identity. In a reading, the East Wind magnifies surrounding influences, urging a return to your origins to re-establish balance and purpose. Its presence implies that growth comes from aligning with your true nature, emphasising organic development, adaptability, and the inherent strength to nurture new beginnings.
