Relationship Layout #2
Difficulty: Easy
This relationship spread focuses more on the common ground of the relationship, with three tiles in the middle column showing the common ground. The middle column essentially displays the past, present, and future of the relationship.
Tile #4 stands for the common base of the relationship, which may be thought of as the past events which have shaped their characters, bringing them together. The current connection that binds them together is Tile #3, indicating the values shared. Tile #7 implies the common goals that would keep the pair together moving into the future.
The columns on either side show what each partner brings to the table. Remember, relationships need not be romantic, and the partners could even be groups rather than individuals. In this layout, the other person is on the left-hand side and the reader on the right.
Tiles #1 & #2 indicate the separate personalities of each member of the relationship. These tiles form a sort of bridge with the tiles beneath them, #5 & #6, which show the qualities that each partner offers the other person, and thus to the relationship as a whole.
Your Relationship #2 Reading
Mutual Goals |
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Your Qualities |
Connection (Present) |
Others' Qualities |
What You Bring |
Common Base (Past) |
What They Bring  |
7: Mutual Goals
Plum Blossom – Innocence
The Plum Blossom is a symbol of resilience, purity, and the resolve to endure hardship. Blooming in the cold of winter, it thrives where other flowers wither, representing perseverance through life's harshest trials. This tile suggests that even in difficult times, there is beauty to be found, and endurance will ultimately lead to renewal. The Plum Blossom also speaks to inner fortitude—your ability to withstand adversity with grace and dignity. Challenges may persist, but just as winter gives way to spring, your current struggles will lead to a period of flourishing. It encourages patience, reminding you that the most valuable growth often occurs in times of hardship.
3: Connection
Cat
The Cat signifies intuition, silent vigilance, and stealthy observation. It embodies an acute sensitivity to subtle cues and the innate ability to ward off negative influences. This tile represents independence and self-reliance, encouraging you to trust your inner guidance when confronting uncertainties. The Cat's presence is a reminder to remain alert and perceptive, using observation to navigate social or personal situations. It emphasises balancing assertiveness with discretion, allowing you to act decisively without drawing unwanted attention. In essence, the Cat stands as a guardian in darkness, protecting your inner light while guiding you to move through challenges with measured insight and resolve.
4: Common Base
Circles 4 – The Jade Coin
The Jade Coin represents prosperity, stability, and the enduring value of hard-earned success. Unlike fleeting wealth, jade is a symbol of long-term security, integrity, and wisdom in financial or personal matters. This tile suggests that careful planning, persistence, and ethical actions will lead to lasting rewards. It may indicate an opportunity for financial gain, but one that requires patience and wise decision-making rather than impulsive action. The Jade Coin also carries spiritual significance, reminding you that true wealth is not measured by material possessions alone, but by the richness of experience, wisdom, and meaningful relationships.
2: Your Qualities
North Wind – Water
The North Wind embodies the relentless, often tumultuous qualities of Water, signalling periods of emotional challenge and uncertainty. This tile suggests that the road ahead may be marked by deep, transformative trials—where turbulent emotions and shifting circumstances test your adaptability. Water's fluidity represents both the potential for cleansing renewal and the risk of overwhelming currents. It advises you to remain vigilant and adaptive, using intuition and flexibility to navigate through the complexities that arise. In essence, the North Wind is a call to harness inner strength and resilience, allowing the natural ebb and flow of life's challenges to eventually lead to personal growth and renewal.
1: Their Qualities
Rat
The Rat embodies industriousness and resourcefulness, symbolising the relentless pursuit of opportunity. It represents a mind that works methodically to accumulate essential resources and strategically prepare for future challenges. This tile speaks to shrewd decision-making, the skill of recognising hidden potential in everyday situations, and the disciplined work required for long-term security. At the same time, it cautions against excessive cunning and exploitation, reminding you that ethical conduct and balanced ambition are vital. The Rat encourages you to use vigilance and calculated planning to transform everyday actions into a robust foundation for success. It champions perseverance, continuous improvement, and the ability to adapt quickly to changing circumstances without compromising integrity. On the negative side, this creature can be cowardly, cunning, and cruel—and a major pest which spreads disease and destruction.
6: What You Bring
Wan 9 – Heavens
5: What They Bring
Worm
The Worm epitomises regenerative energy, transformation, and the power hidden within seemingly insignificant beginnings. It represents the natural process of decay and renewal, where overlooked resources are converted into the nourishment required for growth. This tile speaks to the strength found in humility and persistence, reminding you that progress starts from the smallest seed of effort. The Worm's influence encourages you to see potential in neglected areas and initiate healing processes in both personal and professional realms. It emphasises the importance of continual self-improvement and the subtle shifts that lead to long-term change. By embracing the cycle of decay and rebirth, you learn to transform setbacks into stepping stones, harnessing the power of incremental progress to cultivate lasting results. The worm is an old Tibetan home remedy with tremendous healing properties, and it represents a powerful cure-all.
