The Love Triangle Layout

The Love Triangle Layout

 

 

Difficulty: Complicated

Casually referred to as the Love Triangle, this spread can be used to determine the dynamics of the relationship between three people, regardless of whether romance is involved. This spread is arranged in the form of a hexagram, consisting of several large and small triangles. This layout may seem somewhat complicated, but it is not entirely that difficult.

The first step is to interpret the tile for each individual position in the spread. Generally, one might ask about a relationship they are involved in, but this does not have to be the case. Ordinarily, the reader's representative tile is #1, their main person of interest is #2, and the other person would be #3.

The second step fills in the downward triangle and involves further examination of the individuals through their views of the other people. Each person has two more tiles showing the way they see and relate to the other members of the triangle. For example, Tile #6 indicates how Person #3 relates to Person #1, while Tile #9 stands for Person #1's attitude toward Person #3.

The next step completes the upward triangle and the hexagram, focusing on tiles #10–13. It also completes the many smaller triangles and hints at the potential for each relationship. The final tile, #13 can be considered the significator of the reading, which suggests the overall potential for this three-way relationship.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Love Triangle Reading

 


P#3   3to2 2+3
2to3   P#2
3to1 Overall 2to1
1+3 1to3 1to2 1+2
  P#1  
         

 

 

 

1: Person #1

Wan 3 – Land

The Land tile represents stability, nurturing growth, and the fertile ground upon which your aspirations can take root. It speaks to both physical and metaphorical landscapes, suggesting that your environment—whether a home, community, or inner state—is ready to support your ambitions. This tile emphasises that true progress is built on a solid foundation; it calls for an assessment of your current resources and surroundings to ensure they are conducive to long-term success. As a symbol of both abundance and grounding, Land encourages you to cultivate a sense of rootedness and stability. In this phase, growth will be measured by the strength of your base, and nurturing your inner landscape becomes as crucial as pursuing external achievements. This tile reminds you that when the earth is well-tilled, the seeds of your endeavours will flourish.

 

 

 

2: Person #2

Circles 7 – The Insect

The Insect tile represents a surge of rapid, energetic activity that delivers quick, albeit transient, successes. It emphasises the potential for short bursts of inspiration and effort that can lead to immediate gains, but it also serves as a reminder that these victories are temporary. This tile underscores the importance of recognising that rapid action can act as a catalyst—a bridge—towards establishing more enduring achievements. It invites you to harness these moments of heightened energy to spark initial progress, while also urging you to develop strategies that convert these brief surges into a stable, long-term foundation. The Insect teaches that while adrenaline-fuelled initiatives can provide a vital boost, lasting growth depends on careful planning and deliberate, sustained effort once the initial momentum has been captured. Use these episodes as signals to seize opportunity, then transition to more measured actions that secure lasting benefits.

 

 

 

3: Person #3

West Wind – Metal

The West Wind, infused with the elemental force of Metal, signifies formidable challenges and the need for rigid structure and decisiveness. Its energy is sharp, uncompromising, and focused on cutting through obstructions that impede your progress. This tile warns that the barriers you face are intentional tests of your resolve and discipline. It calls for a strategic, no-nonsense approach to dismantling resistance—transforming obstacles into opportunities through strength, precision, and clarity of purpose. The Metal aspect emphasises that fortitude and determination, when applied with a clear mind, can transform rigidity into a tool for forging lasting success.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

4: Person #1's view of #2

Cat

The Cat signifies intuition, silent vigilance, and stealthy observation. It embodies an acute sensitivity to subtle cues and the innate ability to ward off negative influences. This tile represents independence and self-reliance, encouraging you to trust your inner guidance when confronting uncertainties. The Cat's presence is a reminder to remain alert and perceptive, using observation to navigate social or personal situations. It emphasises balancing assertiveness with discretion, allowing you to act decisively without drawing unwanted attention. In essence, the Cat stands as a guardian in darkness, protecting your inner light while guiding you to move through challenges with measured insight and resolve.

 

 

 

5: Person #2's view of #3

Circles 5 – The Dragon

The Dragon represents power, transformation, and the potential for monumental achievements. It embodies courage, strength, and adventure, urging you to harness your inner power and rise to the challenges ahead. This tile suggests a time of opportunity, where you can achieve extraordinary feats if you are willing to take bold actions and face any fears head-on. The Dragon also symbolises spiritual growth, renewal, and transcending limitations. It encourages you to embrace change and believe in your ability to influence your destiny. The presence of the Dragon in a reading highlights a period of expansion, where personal and professional boundaries are pushed, and your potential is realised.

 

 

 

6: Person #3's view of #1

Bamboo – Learning

The Bamboo represents resilience, adaptability, and the power of communal strength. Unlike rigid trees that snap in strong winds, bamboo bends but does not break, symbolising the ability to endure challenges through flexibility and wisdom. This tile calls for a balance between strength and surrender, reminding you that sometimes the best way to overcome an obstacle is to yield rather than resist. It also speaks to the importance of interconnectedness—family, friendships, and alliances provide stability and support. The Bamboo encourages you to lean on those around you, knowing that cooperation leads to greater success than solitary struggle. Just as a single bamboo stalk is fragile, but a grove is unbreakable, your strength lies in your connections and willingness to adapt.

 

 

 

7: Person #2's view of #1

Wan 8 – The Knot

The Knot signifies connection, fate, and the web of relationships and circumstances that shape our lives. It suggests that events or people are deeply intertwined, and understanding these connections is key to resolving current challenges. This tile can indicate strong bonds—whether romantic, familial, or spiritual—that require care and attention to remain intact. However, it may also warn of entanglements or obligations that have become restrictive. If the Knot feels too tight, it may be time to untangle yourself from unhealthy patterns or commitments. The lesson of the Knot is that relationships and choices are bound by cause and effect; mindful actions will create harmony, while carelessness may lead to complications.

 

 

 

8: Person #3's view of #2

Orchid – Refinement

The Orchid is a symbol of elegance, integrity, and higher wisdom. It represents the pursuit of personal and spiritual elevation, urging you to rise above mundane distractions and embrace a more enlightened path. The Orchid is associated with those who dedicate themselves to knowledge and self-improvement. This tile suggests a time of refinement—whether in personal relationships, intellectual pursuits, or spiritual development. You are being called to cultivate grace, dignity, and a deeper understanding of the world around you. The Orchid also signifies that beauty and wisdom come from patience and cultivation, not force or haste.

 

 

 

9: Person #1's view of #3

East Wind – Wood

The East Wind represents the core of your being and the birth of new energy. This tile embodies the vital force of growth, mirroring the nurturing yet resilient nature of Wood. It signifies that the energies influencing your current state are rooted in your inner self—your creativity, ambitions, and authentic identity. In a reading, the East Wind magnifies surrounding influences, urging a return to your origins to re-establish balance and purpose. Its presence implies that growth comes from aligning with your true nature, emphasising organic development, adaptability, and the inherent strength to nurture new beginnings.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

10: Overall relationship between persons #1 and #2

Plum Blossom – Innocence

The Plum Blossom is a symbol of resilience, purity, and the resolve to endure hardship. Blooming in the cold of winter, it thrives where other flowers wither, representing perseverance through life's harshest trials. This tile suggests that even in difficult times, there is beauty to be found, and endurance will ultimately lead to renewal. The Plum Blossom also speaks to inner fortitude—your ability to withstand adversity with grace and dignity. Challenges may persist, but just as winter gives way to spring, your current struggles will lead to a period of flourishing. It encourages patience, reminding you that the most valuable growth often occurs in times of hardship.

 

 

 

11: Overall relationship between persons #2 and #3

Bamboo 3 – The Toad

The Toad represents resilience through hardship, resourcefulness, and the rewards of patience. Its presence suggests a time of struggle or slow progress, but also the wisdom gained from perseverance. The Toad is often associated with wealth and protection in folklore, signifying hidden treasures that will only be revealed through hard work and dedication. Ambition may be high, but it warns against reaching beyond one's means without preparation. This tile urges patience—difficulties will pass, leaving you stronger and more grounded in your pursuits. Look beyond surface-level frustrations to recognise deeper opportunities for learning and growth.

 

 

12: Overall relationship between persons #1 and #3

North Wind – Water

The North Wind embodies the relentless, often tumultuous qualities of Water, signalling periods of emotional challenge and uncertainty. This tile suggests that the road ahead may be marked by deep, transformative trials—where turbulent emotions and shifting circumstances test your adaptability. Water's fluidity represents both the potential for cleansing renewal and the risk of overwhelming currents. It advises you to remain vigilant and adaptive, using intuition and flexibility to navigate through the complexities that arise. In essence, the North Wind is a call to harness inner strength and resilience, allowing the natural ebb and flow of life's challenges to eventually lead to personal growth and renewal.

 

 

 

13: Overall 3-way Relationship

Circles 4 – The Jade Coin

The Jade Coin represents prosperity, stability, and the enduring value of hard-earned success. Unlike fleeting wealth, jade is a symbol of long-term security, integrity, and wisdom in financial or personal matters. This tile suggests that careful planning, persistence, and ethical actions will lead to lasting rewards. It may indicate an opportunity for financial gain, but one that requires patience and wise decision-making rather than impulsive action. The Jade Coin also carries spiritual significance, reminding you that true wealth is not measured by material possessions alone, but by the richness of experience, wisdom, and meaningful relationships.

 

 


 

 

 

 

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