The Love Triangle Layout

The Love Triangle Layout

 

 

Difficulty: Complicated

Casually referred to as the Love Triangle, this layout can be used to determine the dynamics of the relationship between three people, regardless of whether romance is involved. This layout is arranged in the form of a hexagram, consisting of several large and small triangles. This layout may seem somewhat complicated, but it is not entirely that difficult.

The first step is to interpret the ogham for each individual position in the layout. Generally, one might ask about a relationship they are involved in, but this does not have to be the case. Ordinarily, the reader's representative ogham is #1, their main person of interest is #2, and the other person would be #3.

The second step fills in the downward triangle and involves further examination of the individuals through their views of the other people. Each person has two more oghams showing the way they see and relate to the other members of the triangle. For example, Ogham #6 indicates how Person #3 relates to Person #1, while Ogham #9 stands for Person #1's attitude toward Person #3.

The next step completes the upward triangle and the hexagram, focusing on oghams #10–13. It also completes the many smaller triangles and hints at the potential for each relationship. The final ogham, #13 can be considered the significator of the reading, which suggests the overall potential for this three-way relationship.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Love Triangle Reading

 


P#3   3to2 2+3
2to3   P#2
3to1 Overall 2to1
1+3 1to3 1to2 1+2
  P#1  
         

 

 

 

1: Person #1

Huathe Blocked

  • Tree/Plant: Hawthorn
  • Kenning: ‘Thorn of Protection’
Blocked Hawthorn becomes paranoia or weakness. Either you trust no one and cut yourself off from life, or you trust everyone and become prey. Look to where you are too defended or too exposed. Choose your thresholds with care. Build your hedges high enough to protect, low enough to breathe.

  • Spiritual Lesson: True protection is conscious, not reactionary.
  • Reflective Question: What am I defending, and is it truly sacred?
  • Affirmation: ‘I protect without imprisoning.’

 

 

 

2: Person #2

Uilleann Blocked

  • Tree/Plant: Honeysuckle
  • Kenning: ‘Hidden Sweetness’
Blocked Uilleann is distraction disguised as sweetness. Are you chasing illusions because they smell nice? Or are you ignoring the real treasures underfoot? The sweetness you seek is real—but you must seek with the right senses.

  • Spiritual Lesson: Not all that tempts is treasure—but real treasure rarely announces itself.
  • Reflective Question: What unseen blessing have I ignored?
  • Affirmation: ‘I follow sweetness hidden in shadow.’

 

 

 

3: Person #3

Muin Blocked

  • Tree/Plant: Vine
  • Kenning: ‘Binding of Intoxication’
Blocked Vine is clinging, addiction, or entanglement in illusions. Are you chasing connection so hard you’ve lost yourself? Beware false intoxications: relationships, substances, ideas that promise bliss but deliver bondage. Choose sacred connection over entrapment.

  • Spiritual Lesson: True connection uplifts; false ties consume.
  • Reflective Question: Where am I entangled in illusion?
  • Affirmation: ‘I choose sacred union, not bondage.’

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

4: Person #1's view of #2

Ur Blocked

  • Tree/Plant: Heather
  • Kenning: ‘Flower of Dreams’
Blocked Heather is escapism, false hope, or emotional dissociation. Dreams without grounding become fantasy. Tend your dreams like gardens, not castles in the air. Hope is sacred—not to be wasted on illusions.

  • Spiritual Lesson: Dreams demand roots as much as wings.
  • Reflective Question: What fragile dream do I need to protect and nourish?
  • Affirmation: ‘I dream with rooted hope.’

 

 

 

5: Person #2's view of #3

Ngetal Blocked

  • Tree/Plant: Reed
  • Kenning: ‘Voice of the Waters’
Blocked Reed creates noise instead of music. Are your words sowing confusion? Are you shouting when you should be silent? Miscommunication can rot trust quickly. Return to simplicity. Speak from the quiet place inside, not the ego’s storm.

  • Spiritual Lesson: The purest messages are the simplest.
  • Reflective Question: What truth needs my voice right now?
  • Affirmation: ‘I am the voice of clear waters.’

 

 

 

6: Person #3's view of #1

Ruis Blocked

  • Tree/Plant: Elder
  • Kenning: ‘Death’s Gateway’
Blocked Elder is stagnation, refusing to grieve, refusing to grow. You may cling to rotted branches, mistaking them for life. Stop embalming your own dead. Surrender the corpse of old identities, dreams, and loyalties.

  • Spiritual Lesson: True rebirth demands true mourning.
  • Reflective Question: What am I still carrying that must be laid to rest?
  • Affirmation: ‘I bless the ending and welcome the new.’

 

 

 

7: Person #2's view of #1

Émancholl

  • Tree/Plant: Double Hazel / ‘Lover’s Vine’
  • Kenning: ‘The Sacred Pair’
Émancholl is duality in harmony: the sacred twin, the mirror, the double thread. This glyph speaks to powerful relationships—those that complete you, challenge you, transform you. Be it a person, a dream, or a path, what you are entwined with now is sacred. Tend it. Honour the tension. Let it make you whole.

  • Spiritual Lesson: True connection is mutual transformation.
  • Reflective Question: What relationship calls me to become more than myself?
  • Affirmation: ‘I grow through sacred union.’

 

 

 

8: Person #3's view of #2

Luis

  • Tree/Plant: Rowan
  • Kenning: ‘Delight of the Eye’
The Rowan stands at the crossroads, its scarlet berries a shield against dark enchantments. Luis grants the seer’s sight—flashes of truth glimmer through the fog. Dreams grow sharper; omens clearer. Not all that you see will be comfortable, but all will be true. Trust the tugs at your spine, the sudden chill when someone speaks untruth. Your soul is attuned to warnings others miss. Listen, and you will pass safely.

  • Spiritual Lesson: True insight demands patience, not desperation.
  • Reflective Question: Where am I mistaking wishful thinking for true intuition?
  • Affirmation: ‘My spirit sharpens to the truth.’

 

 

 

9: Person #1's view of #3

Straif

  • Tree/Plant: Blackthorn
  • Kenning: ‘Blade of Trials’
Blackthorn is the bitter gatekeeper of transformation. Its thorns are cruel, but its berries sweeten with frost. Straif heralds hardship—not as punishment, but as alchemy. Pain clarifies. Conflict strengthens. Choose to transform, not to collapse. The frostbitten fruit is the richest.

  • Spiritual Lesson: Pain refines, not defines.
  • Reflective Question: What suffering is trying to carve me into something better?
  • Affirmation: ‘I transform pain into power.’

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

10: Overall relationship between persons #1 and #2

Ailm Blocked

  • Tree/Plant: Silver Fir
  • Kenning: ‘Pillar of Resilience’
Blocked Fir falls into rigidity or despair. Are you standing so firm that you refuse to bend when you must? Are you pretending strength while hollow inside? Adaptability strengthens resilience. Stay alive to yourself—not frozen.

  • Spiritual Lesson: True resilience bends without breaking.
  • Reflective Question: What inner root keeps me alive through winter?
  • Affirmation: ‘I endure, evergreen and steadfast.’

 

 

 

11: Overall relationship between persons #2 and #3

Duir Blocked

  • Tree/Plant: Oak
  • Kenning: ‘Door to Strength’
Blocked Oak crumbles into tyranny or weakness. You may either dominate when you should lead, or abdicate when you should stand firm. Know the difference between stubborn pride and rightful authority. Strength unused is strength lost. Step up—or step aside.

  • Spiritual Lesson: Power without purpose is decay.
  • Reflective Question: Where must I claim authority—or surrender pride?
  • Affirmation: ‘I am the door that withstands all storms.’

 

 

12: Overall relationship between persons #1 and #3

Coll Blocked

  • Tree/Plant: Hazel
  • Kenning: ‘Wellspring of Wisdom’
Blocked Hazel creates confusion, ignorance, or misuse of knowledge. Perhaps you seek easy answers where there are none, or hoard knowledge without application. Wisdom is not merely knowing; it is knowing when, and how, and why. Choose discernment over cleverness.

  • Spiritual Lesson: Wisdom must be lived, not stored.
  • Reflective Question: What hidden knowledge am I being invited to embrace?
  • Affirmation: ‘I drink from the sacred well.’

 

 

 

13: Overall 3-way Relationship

Gort

  • Tree/Plant: Ivy
  • Kenning: ‘Tenacity of the Green Path’
Ivy is persistence incarnate. It climbs, winds, and survives where others perish. Gort urges you to endure, adapt, and climb steadily toward your light. Tenacity, not brute strength, wins the marathon of life. Let your spirit be evergreen, no matter how dark the stone you cling to.

  • Spiritual Lesson: Persistence must serve true growth.
  • Reflective Question: What am I climbing toward—and is it worth it?
  • Affirmation: ‘I cling to the light that feeds me.’

 

 


 

 

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