The Love Triangle Layout

Difficulty: Complicated

Casually referred to as the Love Triangle, this layout can be used to determine the dynamics of the relationship between three people, regardless of whether romance is involved. This layout is arranged in the form of a hexagram, consisting of several large and small triangles. This layout may seem somewhat complicated, but it is not entirely that difficult.

The first step is to interpret the ogham for each individual position in the layout. Generally, one might ask about a relationship they are involved in, but this does not have to be the case. Ordinarily, the reader's representative ogham is #1, their main person of interest is #2, and the other person would be #3.

The second step fills in the downward triangle and involves further examination of the individuals through their views of the other people. Each person has two more oghams showing the way they see and relate to the other members of the triangle. For example, Ogham #6 indicates how Person #3 relates to Person #1, while Ogham #9 stands for Person #1's attitude toward Person #3.

The next step completes the upward triangle and the hexagram, focusing on oghams #10–13. It also completes the many smaller triangles and hints at the potential for each relationship. The final ogham, #13 can be considered the significator of the reading, which suggests the overall potential for this three-way relationship.

Your Love Triangle Reading

P#3		3to2	2+3	2to3		P#2
	3to1		Overall		2to1
1+3		1to3		1to2		1+2
			P#1

1: Person #1

Onn

Tree/Plant: Gorse
Kenning: ‘Flame of Fertility’

Gorse blazes golden on barren land. It teaches that abundance can be summoned even from wastelands. Creativity, sexuality, and prosperity burn bright if tended. Onn invites you to stoke the fire: light your desires without shame. Plant the seeds of future harvests with daring and joy.

Spiritual Lesson: Sacred fire creates; false fire consumes.
Reflective Question: Where does my fire want to bloom?
Affirmation: ‘I blaze the barren into bloom.’

2: Person #2

Eabhadh Blocked

Tree/Plant: Aspen
Kenning: ‘Stone of Memory’

When Eabhadh is blocked, you're drowning in ambiguity or paralysed by what can't be understood. But not all truths are meant to be solved—some are meant to be witnessed.

Spiritual Lesson: Some mysteries are meant to be honoured, not solved.
Reflective Question: What silence am I afraid to name?
Affirmation: ‘I honour the nameless and remember the unsaid.’

3: Person #3

Eadha

Tree/Plant: Aspen
Kenning: ‘Shield of Courage’

Aspen trembles, but does not break. Its quivering leaves are a badge of bravery, not fear. Eadha reminds you that courage doesn’t mean fearlessness—it means motion through fear. Shake if you must. Just move anyway.

Spiritual Lesson: Courage is trembling action.
Reflective Question: What fear am I called to face and outgrow?
Affirmation: ‘I tremble, but I move.’

4: Person #1's view of #2

Tinne Blocked

Tree/Plant: Holly
Kenning: ‘Warrior’s Crown’

When Tinne is blocked, war becomes endless, joyless, and purposeless. You might fight battles that aren’t yours, or fail to defend what matters most. Recognise your real enemies. Many times they live within: fear, laziness, cowardice. Take up arms, but choose your wars with sacred ruthlessness.

Spiritual Lesson: Victory is hollow without a worthy cause.
Reflective Question: What is truly worth fighting for now?
Affirmation: ‘I wear the crown of sacred battle.’

5: Person #2's view of #3

Quert Blocked

Tree/Plant: Apple
Kenning: ‘Fruit of the Otherworld’

When Apple is blocked, pleasure becomes greed, or fear of pleasure stifles the spirit. You may refuse what life offers, believing yourself unworthy—or gorge yourself into spiritual sickness. Seek balance. The fruit of the Otherworld is sacred because it is shared, not hoarded.

Spiritual Lesson: True abundance is joyful, generous, and reverent.
Reflective Question: Where am I denying myself the blessings of life?
Affirmation: ‘I taste joy without fear.’

6: Person #3's view of #1

Ruis Blocked

Tree/Plant: Elder
Kenning: ‘Death’s Gateway’

Blocked Elder is stagnation, refusing to grieve, refusing to grow. You may cling to rotted branches, mistaking them for life. Stop embalming your own dead. Surrender the corpse of old identities, dreams, and loyalties.

Spiritual Lesson: True rebirth demands true mourning.
Reflective Question: What am I still carrying that must be laid to rest?
Affirmation: ‘I bless the ending and welcome the new.’

7: Person #2's view of #1

Ur Blocked

Tree/Plant: Heather
Kenning: ‘Flower of Dreams’

Blocked Heather is escapism, false hope, or emotional dissociation. Dreams without grounding become fantasy. Tend your dreams like gardens, not castles in the air. Hope is sacred—not to be wasted on illusions.

Spiritual Lesson: Dreams demand roots as much as wings.
Reflective Question: What fragile dream do I need to protect and nourish?
Affirmation: ‘I dream with rooted hope.’

8: Person #3's view of #2

Luis Blocked

Tree/Plant: Rowan
Kenning: ‘Delight of the Eye’

When Luis is blocked, the eyes deceive, and the spirit grows porous. Trust given lightly is trust betrayed. Omens grow cloudy; intuition is warped by fear or yearning. The shield has cracks; unseen influences may leech through if vigilance is not restored. Test every vision against the flame of reason. Listen more to what is unsaid than what is proclaimed. Protection demands discernment as much as faith.

Spiritual Lesson: True insight demands patience, not desperation.
Reflective Question: Where am I mistaking wishful thinking for true intuition?
Affirmation: ‘My spirit sharpens to the truth.’

9: Person #1's view of #3

Straif

Tree/Plant: Blackthorn
Kenning: ‘Blade of Trials’

Blackthorn is the bitter gatekeeper of transformation. Its thorns are cruel, but its berries sweeten with frost. Straif heralds hardship—not as punishment, but as alchemy. Pain clarifies. Conflict strengthens. Choose to transform, not to collapse. The frostbitten fruit is the richest.

Spiritual Lesson: Pain refines, not defines.
Reflective Question: What suffering is trying to carve me into something better?
Affirmation: ‘I transform pain into power.’

10: Overall relationship between persons #1 and #2

Émancholl Blocked

Tree/Plant: Double Hazel / ‘Lover’s Vine’
Kenning: ‘The Sacred Pair’

Blocked Émancholl is entanglement without purpose. You may be caught in patterns that mirror old pain, not new growth. Not all bonds are sacred. Some vines must be cut to allow new growth.

Spiritual Lesson: True connection is mutual transformation.
Reflective Question: What relationship calls me to become more than myself?
Affirmation: ‘I grow through sacred union.’

11: Overall relationship between persons #2 and #3

Iphin Blocked

Tree/Plant: Gooseberry
Kenning: ‘The Tang of Life’

When Iphin is blocked, bitterness overrides renewal. You may be fixating on what stings instead of what it awakens. Don't let the sourness of the moment poison the sweetness of your path.

Spiritual Lesson: Life stings—but it stings to wake you.
Reflective Question: What bitterness must I bless so it can become my medicine?
Affirmation: ‘I rise refreshed from the bite of truth.’

12: Overall relationship between persons #1 and #3

Gort Blocked

Tree/Plant: Ivy
Kenning: ‘Tenacity of the Green Path’

Blocked Ivy suffocates instead of survives. Are you holding onto dead things? Are you climbing structures that no longer serve you? Growth for its own sake is cancer. Attach wisely—or learn when to release.

Spiritual Lesson: Persistence must serve true growth.
Reflective Question: What am I climbing toward—and is it worth it?
Affirmation: ‘I cling to the light that feeds me.’

13: Overall 3-way Relationship

Nion

Tree/Plant: Ash
Kenning: ‘World-Tree of the Ancestors’

Ash roots into the underworld and crowns into the heavens. Nion is the ladder between realms—initiation, connection, growth beyond the self. You are called to think larger: your actions ripple beyond your little life. A decision made today weaves into the bones of your descendants. Rise into responsibility. Carry the vision of the ancestors with you, but blaze new trails they could only dream of.

Spiritual Lesson: True growth demands humility before the unseen web of life.
Reflective Question: What legacy am I weaving with my daily choices?
Affirmation: ‘I walk the worlds rooted and crowned.’