The Love Triangle Layout

Difficulty: Complicated

Casually referred to as the Love Triangle, this layout can be used to determine the dynamics of the relationship between three people, regardless of whether romance is involved. This layout is arranged in the form of a hexagram, consisting of several large and small triangles. This layout may seem somewhat complicated, but it is not entirely that difficult.

The first step is to interpret the ogham for each individual position in the layout. Generally, one might ask about a relationship they are involved in, but this does not have to be the case. Ordinarily, the reader's representative ogham is #1, their main person of interest is #2, and the other person would be #3.

The second step fills in the downward triangle and involves further examination of the individuals through their views of the other people. Each person has two more oghams showing the way they see and relate to the other members of the triangle. For example, Ogham #6 indicates how Person #3 relates to Person #1, while Ogham #9 stands for Person #1's attitude toward Person #3.

The next step completes the upward triangle and the hexagram, focusing on oghams #10–13. It also completes the many smaller triangles and hints at the potential for each relationship. The final ogham, #13 can be considered the significator of the reading, which suggests the overall potential for this three-way relationship.

Your Love Triangle Reading

P#3		3to2	2+3	2to3		P#2
	3to1		Overall		2to1
1+3		1to3		1to2		1+2
			P#1

1: Person #1

Duir Blocked

Tree/Plant: Oak
Kenning: ‘Door to Strength’

Blocked Oak crumbles into tyranny or weakness. You may either dominate when you should lead, or abdicate when you should stand firm. Know the difference between stubborn pride and rightful authority. Strength unused is strength lost. Step up—or step aside.

Spiritual Lesson: Power without purpose is decay.
Reflective Question: Where must I claim authority—or surrender pride?
Affirmation: ‘I am the door that withstands all storms.’

2: Person #2

Tinne Blocked

Tree/Plant: Holly
Kenning: ‘Warrior’s Crown’

When Tinne is blocked, war becomes endless, joyless, and purposeless. You might fight battles that aren’t yours, or fail to defend what matters most. Recognise your real enemies. Many times they live within: fear, laziness, cowardice. Take up arms, but choose your wars with sacred ruthlessness.

Spiritual Lesson: Victory is hollow without a worthy cause.
Reflective Question: What is truly worth fighting for now?
Affirmation: ‘I wear the crown of sacred battle.’

3: Person #3

Tree/Plant: Heather
Kenning: ‘Flower of Dreams’

Heather carpets the wild hills, a dreamscape of resilience and mystery. Ur asks you to trust in subtle magic: quiet dreams, soft longings, secret hopes. Nourish them patiently. Some dreams need slow seasons to grow before they break into bloom.

Spiritual Lesson: Dreams demand roots as much as wings.
Reflective Question: What fragile dream do I need to protect and nourish?
Affirmation: ‘I dream with rooted hope.’

4: Person #1's view of #2

Fearn Blocked

Tree/Plant: Alder
Kenning: ‘Shield of the Warriors’

When Alder is blocked, the call to act becomes a coward’s retreat or a reckless charge. You may be standing in the wrong battle, wasting blood for pride. Or worse, refusing a battle that desperately needs your presence. Beware false peace. Some bridges must be burned before the right ones can be built. Know what you are fighting for—and what you are willing to surrender.

Spiritual Lesson: Strength is found not in stubbornness, but in sacred resilience.
Reflective Question: What cause truly deserves my courage right now?
Affirmation: ‘I am the bridge and the battleground.’

5: Person #2's view of #3

Ór

Tree/Plant: Spindle Tree
Kenning: ‘Weaver’s Gold’

Ór is the thread that weaves fate. Spindle wood was used to craft tools that spin—and so too do you spin destiny now, strand by strand. This glyph teaches prosperity through precision, elegance through focused intention. What you spin now will clothe your future. Choose your pattern with care.

Spiritual Lesson: Destiny is not found—it is crafted.
Reflective Question: What thread must I pick up now, even if it scares me?
Affirmation: ‘I spin my future with sacred hands.’

6: Person #3's view of #1

Huathe

Tree/Plant: Hawthorn
Kenning: ‘Thorn of Protection’

Hawthorn is the guardian hedge—neither hostile nor tame, but fiercely loyal to its sacred task. Huathe asks you to protect what is holy: your heart, your dreams, your boundaries. Sacred spaces need walls. Not everything and everyone deserves access to your inner garden. Wield your thorn wisely—defend, but do not imprison yourself.

Spiritual Lesson: True protection is conscious, not reactionary.
Reflective Question: What am I defending, and is it truly sacred?
Affirmation: ‘I protect without imprisoning.’

7: Person #2's view of #1

Iphin Blocked

Tree/Plant: Gooseberry
Kenning: ‘The Tang of Life’

When Iphin is blocked, bitterness overrides renewal. You may be fixating on what stings instead of what it awakens. Don't let the sourness of the moment poison the sweetness of your path.

Spiritual Lesson: Life stings—but it stings to wake you.
Reflective Question: What bitterness must I bless so it can become my medicine?
Affirmation: ‘I rise refreshed from the bite of truth.’

8: Person #3's view of #2

Eabhadh

Tree/Plant: Aspen
Kenning: ‘Stone of Memory’

Eabhadh is mystery incarnate—the glyph that marks death, silence, or what cannot be said. It is the absence that still speaks. You are in a liminal space now: between known and unknown, voice and silence, life and the afterlife of meaning. Mark this moment. It matters more than it can ever explain itself.

Spiritual Lesson: Some mysteries are meant to be honoured, not solved.
Reflective Question: What silence am I afraid to name?
Affirmation: ‘I honour the nameless and remember the unsaid.’

9: Person #1's view of #3

Uilleann

Tree/Plant: Honeysuckle
Kenning: ‘Hidden Sweetness’

Uilleann wraps and winds—sweetness found not in plain sight, but in spirals. This is the glyph of unseen blessings and secret pathways. Trust the detour. Trust the fragrance that pulls at your soul. Follow what draws you, not what shouts at you. Life’s richest nectar is rarely on the main road.

Spiritual Lesson: Not all that tempts is treasure—but real treasure rarely announces itself.
Reflective Question: What unseen blessing have I ignored?
Affirmation: ‘I follow sweetness hidden in shadow.’

10: Overall relationship between persons #1 and #2

Ailm

Tree/Plant: Silver Fir
Kenning: ‘Pillar of Resilience’

Silver Fir stands tall in winter’s darkest days. Ailm offers endurance, spiritual health, and steady strength. In times of bleakness, remember your evergreen soul. Stand tall, rooted deep, reaching for starlight even when the sun hides. Your stillness is your revolution.

Spiritual Lesson: True resilience bends without breaking.
Reflective Question: What inner root keeps me alive through winter?
Affirmation: ‘I endure, evergreen and steadfast.’

11: Overall relationship between persons #2 and #3

Gort Blocked

Tree/Plant: Ivy
Kenning: ‘Tenacity of the Green Path’

Blocked Ivy suffocates instead of survives. Are you holding onto dead things? Are you climbing structures that no longer serve you? Growth for its own sake is cancer. Attach wisely—or learn when to release.

Spiritual Lesson: Persistence must serve true growth.
Reflective Question: What am I climbing toward—and is it worth it?
Affirmation: ‘I cling to the light that feeds me.’

12: Overall relationship between persons #1 and #3

Coll Blocked

Tree/Plant: Hazel
Kenning: ‘Wellspring of Wisdom’

Blocked Hazel creates confusion, ignorance, or misuse of knowledge. Perhaps you seek easy answers where there are none, or hoard knowledge without application. Wisdom is not merely knowing; it is knowing when, and how, and why. Choose discernment over cleverness.

Spiritual Lesson: Wisdom must be lived, not stored.
Reflective Question: What hidden knowledge am I being invited to embrace?
Affirmation: ‘I drink from the sacred well.’

13: Overall 3-way Relationship

Quert

Tree/Plant: Apple
Kenning: ‘Fruit of the Otherworld’

Quert is the sweet fruit hanging just beyond reach, the Otherworld’s promise of abundance, beauty, and healing. You are called to enjoy life's sweetness without shame or fear. Taste joy fully, live fully, love fully. Gifts are meant to be accepted. Pleasure, properly honoured, is a spiritual act.

Spiritual Lesson: True abundance is joyful, generous, and reverent.
Reflective Question: Where am I denying myself the blessings of life?
Affirmation: ‘I taste joy without fear.’