Relationship Spread #1
Difficulty: Easy
This tarot spread is easy to read, like a convenient chart. In this spread, court cards generally indicate actual people with the same characteristics. Knights (or corresponding princes, but not kings) and queens are meant to represent actual men and women in this tarot spread. Look for patterns in the cards as always.
Card #1 is the overall significator of the relationship. The two columns on either side of the significator characterise each individual's role in the relationship. The relationship does not have to be romantic. In fact, it could be a relationship between a person and a group, or even how two groups relate.
The top row, cards #7 & #2, is about the conscious thoughts of each person, or what they think about the relationship and likewise how they view their partner.
The middle row, cards #6 & #3, reveals the way each individual feels about the other. Emotional awareness corresponds to a person's unconscious thoughts that run deep, affecting a person in ways he or she is not fully aware of.
The bottom row, cards #5 & #4, represents the way each person behaves, in other words the stance taken regarding the relationship. The way a person acts may be genuine, but sometimes people are phony and manipulative, so it is best to weigh this card against the other person's cards to determine how they match up.
Your Relationship #1 Reading
You | Other Person | ||
Thought | ![]() Six of Hearts |
![]() Ten of Clubs |
|
Emotion | ![]() Three of Spades |
The Significator![]() Nine of Diamonds |
![]() Five of Clubs |
External Stance | ![]() Seven of Hearts |
![]() Seven of Diamonds |
![](https://tarotsmith.com/images/playingcards/diamonds09.jpg)
The Significator
Nine of Diamonds
'Gain'
Venus in VirgoInheritance, increase in wealth, material fortune, accomplishment.
![](https://tarotsmith.com/images/playingcards/hearts06.jpg)
The Querent's Thoughts
Six of Hearts
'Pleasure'
Sun in ScorpioNatural harmony, satisfaction, beginnings of steady increase
![](https://tarotsmith.com/images/playingcards/clubs10.jpg)
The Other Person's Thoughts
Ten of Clubs
'Oppression'
Saturn in SagittariusBrute force with no apparent spiritual source. Lies, repression, cruelty, malice. The element of fire in its most destructive form.
![](https://tarotsmith.com/images/playingcards/spades03.jpg)
The Querent's Emotions
Three of Spades
'Sorrow'
Saturn in LibraMelancholy, disruption, discord, delay, separation.
![](https://tarotsmith.com/images/playingcards/clubs05.jpg)
The Other Person's Emotions
Five of Clubs
'Strife'
Saturn in LeoStruggle, competition, opposition, violence, quarrelling, lust and carnal desire.
![](https://tarotsmith.com/images/playingcards/hearts07.jpg)
The Querent's External Stance
Seven of Hearts
'Debauch'
Venus in ScorpioLoss or lack of moral values. Deception, shameless indulgence, lust, fornication, intoxication, delusion, promises unfulfilled.
![](https://tarotsmith.com/images/playingcards/diamonds07.jpg)
The Other Person's External Stance
Seven of Diamonds
'Failure'
Saturn in TaurusSloth, abandoned labour, hopes deceived, promises unfulfilled, disappointment. Great effort producing little gain.